Girl, Wash Your Face
By Rachel Hollis
Pub date: 8 March 2018
Publisher: Thomas Nelson
On my last day working at Hachette UK, my lovely colleagues gave me a very special present. It was one of the most thoughtful I have ever received. It was an Amazon Gift Card with a certain amount of money they hope I’d spend in kindle books. And that’s exactly what I have done. I have bought lots of books with the card and Rachel Hollis’ Girl Wash Your Face is one of them.
I was looking for something to boost my self-confidence and this book appeared as one to read on so many websites that I went on Amazon UK and bought it straight away.
In her first book, founder of the lifestyle website TheChicSite.com and CEO of her own media company, Rachel Hollis helps readers break free from the lies keeping them from the joy-filled and exuberant life they are meant to have.
Written with wry wit and hard-earned wisdom, each chapter of Girl, Wash Your Face begins with a specific lie Rachel once believed that left her feeling overwhelmed, unworthy and ready to give up. As a working mother, a former foster parent and a woman who has dealt with insecurities about her body and relationships, she speaks with insight and kindness to help women unpack the limiting mind-sets that destroy their self-confidence and keep them from moving forward.
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Let me start by saying that I am not one for inspirational Instagram quotes with gold letters and pastel backgrounds so when I first started reading Girl, Wash Your Face I was more than a bit sceptical. Could this famous American blogger teach me something about self-esteem and confidence? Really? Without even realising it, I had started judging Hollis’ book and I was sure she couldn’t tell me anything new about myself and the lies I have firmly believed for the last 28 years.
I was wrong, of course. Once I started the first chapter, I couldn’t stop reading. I read Rachel’s book on my way to and back from the office and also before I turned off the light and went to sleep at night. I found her advice uplifting, funny, honest and direct. Most of all, it felt real. I felt as if I was able to trust what was written in-front of me. With a combination of humour and no-nonsense advice, Rachel Hollis was able to teach me many things.
I learnt about the lies I have too been telling myself: that when I get the perfect flat / job / handbag / clothes I will be happy. That I am not good enough, that I will start tomorrow, that there’s only one right way to be and that loving my boyfriend is enough for me. Just to mention a few.
Let me tell you that I highlighted more sentences in Hollis’ book than in any other on my kindle library. Her advice made me smile and it made me feel stronger. I think that deserves five big and shiny stars.
Of course there would be people out there who won’t like what she has to say or her background but I feel it’s only fair to let her to put pen to paper and write what she knows, just in case it can help someone else.
To be honest, her words helped me. They opened my eyes at the right moment because what she says it’s true: the only person responsible for your happiness is you. Which is truly fantastic.